The Reflection surrounding the Haka video last week definitely touched a nerve. It sparked many comments and was shared across the country. To those who responded, thank you — I hear your hearts.
In my travels, I interact with people from a variety of Christian streams: Catholics, Anglicans, Charismatics, Evangelicals, Pentecostals — and there is something interesting about Protestants in general when I ask this question: Do you need Church to be a Christian? Most of them say: “No. I have the Bible, I have Jesus, that’s all I need.”
Think about that for a second. How do you feel about that?
For my part, it makes me sad. It seems that belonging to a community is optional for us Protestants, yet, paradoxically, there is an ache in our hearts to be known, to be seen, and to belong.
This is one of the reasons why the Haka video touched me so deeply.
It felt like the dancers were saying: ”We will stand with you. In this journey, through the perils of life, we will stand and fight with you; we will protect you.”
The others at the wedding could not simply stand by and watch, the power drew them in and they had to be a part of it. Then, at the end, the way each of the men came and greeted the bridegroom with their foreheads touching was so gentle in contrast to the power of the Haka; it made me wish I was part of it all.
As I reflected on all this, it sparked a memory for me from my homeland. In the Zulu language, the greeting is “Sawubona” which means, “I see you.” The response is “Ngikhona” which means, “I am here.”
There is a depth that is lost in the English translation this greeting implies: “I am because you see me.”
There is a Zulu saying that is often quoted in South Africa — don’t even try to say it — “Umuntu ngumuntu ngabantu.” Basically, it means, “A person is a person because of other people.”
I get the messiness and, sometimes, the complete insanity of community. In truth, I have often wanted to call for the jacket with the sleeves that tie in the back, but consider what would it be like to be in a community that let you know: “”We will stand with you. In this journey, through the perils of life, we will stand with you.”
The Haka revealed just how much my heart longs for that. Maybe you do too?
Love each other.
Just as I have loved you, you should love each other.
Your love for one another will prove to the world
that you are my disciples.